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Fun loving, mischievous, got lots to say ! Adventurous , direct, open, friendly, caring and independent ! Just a few for starters the rest is for you to find out ! what am I looking for ? Don't like to be prescriptive but will know when I find it - hopefully !!!!


Hi, I am 65, retired but work part time selling Avon . I enjoy walks in the countryside (no hiking though), visits to the east coast, Devon, Dorset, city breaks etc. I have only been out of the country once and that was to Cyprus but I could be persuaded to go again with the right person. I also enjoy dancing when I get the chance. I like most types...


I am told I am viberant and positive in nature. Am compassionate warm and loveing . I enjoy nothing more than having a great laugh with like minded freinds. I enjoy being surrounded by a beautiful untamed enviroment. Really am facinated by wildlife and the secret world in which they love. Nature serves to teach us so much about how to live. I enjoy a good book that either teaches...


I am a retired ex-serviceman, I am 6ft plus, Scottish, retired and living in a village in Norfolk. I like music and enjoy company.


I am a woman in her 60's who has lived a life bringing up my children who have now fled the nest and left a big space to fill. A space for me to find my special person to occupy.I live on my own. I do not own my own home, it is rented and I am a retired Lady.. I have plenty to fill my life with except the...


I am a confident independent woman looking for someone who enjoys moving forward and not becoming 'stuck' which is easy to do in later years. I will keep fighting back the years as best I can although I have accepted wrinkles along with aches the challenge is to adjust and make the most of whatever I can. I adapt easily to situations and have no need to always be in...


Hi, thanks you for looking at my profile, I am 6.2ft tall, pretty say going, love meal out and in. Enjoy cooking as well. Like a nice walk out in the fresh air. Honesty, loyalty and good manners are what I would look for my ideal partner. I am here for a serious relationship, friendship for a start, as the best and longest relationships are based on friendship. I love...