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Singles in Orpington

Find your happy today with the UK's friendliest dating website.

Explore fun dates, real connections and a community of genuine singles looking for someone special in Orpington.

Not your ordinary online dating site, Find Happy combines a community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts with a fast, easy to use dating platform to make your quest for love an enjoyable and successful one.

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Serious singles seeking meaningful, lasting relationships deserve a more tailored and comprehensive experience, which Find Happy is proud to deliver.

Find your perfect date in Orpington

Technology is supposed to make life easier. So why are dating sites making it more complicated? We have taken online dating back to basics with an easy to use site which can be used on mobile devices and tablets without installing additional software coupled with a team of knowledgeable relationship experts and friendly 24/7 support staff to help when you need it.

Our simple search filters, dedicated niche sites and advanced matching algorithms mean you spend less time completing tiresome questionnaires and more time getting to know our members.

Tailor your dating experience to suit your individual needs

While most members choose our main site for singles, we offer several options to cater to more specific dating requirements. These include Mature dating for singles over 50, Christian dating for those seeking a partner with similar values, and single parent dating for members looking to connect with lone parents to share their life with.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Orpington, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Orpington

I am a widow. Great movie fan also theatre Have travelled a lot in the past but not recently Love dogs have had many different breeds


Average height and build,short hair with highlights,non smoker. Likes holidays and an animal lover.


Fun guy lives in s London and looking to meet local ladies for chill times . Maybe some concerts comedy or sport just quality time! Love a night in and relaxing over a bottle of wine and just good company x


Single and solvent, although I was married once upon a time..a long time ago. Now retired following a long career in local government, interesting work and far from boring!! An unassuming character, enjoy the simple things in life, walking, music, visiting friends and family and having friends and family join me around my dining table. Have lived alone for many years, and quite enjoy it, such freedom...!! Own my own...


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I am divorced and have been in a fairly long relationship that has now come to an end. I am looking for friendship, maybe more depending if I meet the right person. I am not religious, more spiritual, I try and keep an open mind and like to hear other peoples opinions. I detest hunting in any form, I really don't understand why people feel the need to kill things....


Honest, open minded and caring. Affectionate and tactile. Love hugs, holding hands and kisses (who doesn't?). Easy going, like to laugh and not afraid to cry. Love walks by the sea or in the country. Like days out exploring.


My photos are 2/3 years old. I oringinate from Essex but lived in Somerset for longer, where my ex husband and I raised our three children. For approximately 14 years I ran my own business, until retiring 4 years ago. My late husband and I moved to Lincolnshire, last year, when I was then suddenly widowed. I now, of course, don't know what the future holds for me and maybe,...