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Find singles looking for love and romance in Plum with Find Happy, the happiness site.

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Recent members around Plum

Are we having fun yet? I reserved myself to being just daddy for 18 years so I could focus on raising my son correctly by myself. He is now set to graduate in 2 years with 6 degrees, so I think I did alright. However, the house is now silent and drives me insane. I was raised with morals, values and integrity and would like to find the same traits...


I am a humble man, yet confident, but knows he is a work in progress. Looking for a special woman who's not afraid to open her heart. I dont play games, and not looking for just a hookup. Friendship is the best place to start, then we see where we go from there. I'm a passionate man, but not every woman I meet gets to see that, only someone special....


Aged: 24 to 39 Location: Within 100 miles of Deer Park, TX


I must confess I am a realist and realism makes up a great deal of my character. Am not afraid to care or appreciate especially when it's mutual.


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I'm a divorced man live in my own home by myself I'm retired. I'm looking for a best friend companion type lady. Someone to live life with. Someone to love life with


I'm very adventurous love taking nice walks by the water. I like nice lounges,concerts ,and nice getaways,live bands,stand up comedy shows and sporting events.


I'm a simple person ,work ,exercise,sleep,tv and the high light of my two days off is spending time with my daughter. I don't drink at all and I'm never going too. I like to stay always in one frame of mind sober. I'm loyal ,selfless,brutally honest and always love unconditionally, so because of these facts I'm careful who I share my time. Because I fall easy. I'm not a player...