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Find Happy is a relationship site for anyone looking for a long lasting relationship. Our award winning combination of dating and lifestyle blogs, expert relationship advice and easy to use online dating application make Find Happy the obvious choice for anyone serious about finding love. Search singles in your city today and start your journey to happiness with thousands of singles in The United States looking for genuine connections.

Being single is common in The US, both through choice or otherwise. Around 117 million American adults are unmarried, close to half of everyone over 18, and there are fewer married-couple households today than at any point on record. So finding single people near you was never the hard part. The hard part is finding the right ones, close enough to meet this week. That's the part we help with.


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We run free communities for people who already know what they're after.All free to join so you can find your own happy place where you feel at home.

  • Dating over 50 — Meet mature singles who want real companionship and a proper second chapter. Older daters tend to be some of the most serious people online.
  • Christian dating — Find people who share your faith and the way you want to live.
  • Divorced dating — If you're divorced, separated or widowed, you're the group most likely to date online. You'll be among people who understand exactly where you're coming from.
  • Single parent dating — Meet other single parents who get the schedule, the school runs and the priorities.

Free dating

We'll be straight with you, because plenty of sites aren't. Making your profile, adding your photos, searching the people near you and seeing who's into you all cost nothing, and there's no card to hand over. The one thing you pay for is messaging. We run free trials and offers that open that up too, so you can try the whole thing before you spend a dime. Most people who date online never pay for anything, and you can get a long way on the free side alone.

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Why local beats long distance

A match in another time zone looks great on your phone and goes nowhere in real life. The relationships that last usually start close to home, with someone you can meet for a coffee on Saturday rather than fly to see. And it works: about one in ten couples now meet online, and for people under thirty it's closer to one in five.

The trick is pointing all of that at your own area instead of the whole country. Turn on location, or just type in your town, ZIP or state, and you'll see people who are genuinely within reach.

The odds aren't the same everywhere

Your local dating pool doesn't look like the national one, and most apps won't mention it. Across the country there are about ninety single men for every hundred single women, but that flips depending on where you live and how old you are. Big cities and college towns usually have more single women. Plenty of smaller and western areas have more single men. And in the late twenties and early thirties, men outnumber women almost everywhere.

Knowing which way your area leans is worth more than any pickup line. Whichever way it goes, Find Happy lets you search your real local pool instead of a national average, so you spend your time where you've got the best chance.

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FAQ'S

Below you will find answers to many common questions. If you have any further concerns, please log in and start a live chat with one of our helpful support team.

It's free to join and use the main features: your profile, browsing local members and seeing who likes you. Sending messages is a paid feature, with free trials that let you message at no cost.

Create your free profile and allow location access (or type in your city). Find Happy will show you compatible single men and women in your area, so you can focus on people you could actually meet.

It varies a lot by city. Nationally there are about ninety single men per hundred single women, but big metros often skew female and other areas skew male. Search your state or city to see your real local pool.

No. An email address is all it takes to create your account and start browsing.

Your details are encrypted and never shared with other members, and you message securely inside the site. We recommend keeping personal contact details off your profile until you're ready.

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Everyone is different. We want you to find your perfect partner. With a database of single men and women from all over The USA we probably have a member who is perfect for you. We have designed Find Happy to make it easy to find or be found by people who are most likely to be compatible. We give you more control over who you meet and who can find you. Some of our members have more demanding requirements in a potential partner, for this reason we have launched several smaller, more exclusive sites to cater for their needs. Please select a site below to find out more about our exclusive dating networks.