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Singles Carlisle

Search, browse and connect with singles all over the UK.

Join the most active, fun singles community in the UK and start meeting local singles you can really connect with.

Finding someone that makes you feel tingly is only the first step. Our experts will help turn those tingles into something special. Read up on our dating advice and check out our blog for all kinds of helpful ideas to help you make the best impression. Don't worry if you haven't tried online dating before - it's really, really simple and we're here to help.

One size doesn't always fit all

Not content with simply offering you a choice of singles in the UK, an award winning, mobile enhanced dating application and expert support and advice, we have now introduced additional sites for people with more specific requirements like the over 50's, divorced or single parents.

  • Safe and secure and anonymous
  • See which members are online when you are
  • Helpful, friendly customer support staff 24-7
  • Only genuine, verified member profiles
  • Free to join and create your own photo profile

Interacting with members

When sending your first message on a dating website, remember that a little effort goes a long way. Start by mentioning something specific from their profile – it shows you've taken the time to read and are genuinely interested.

Keep it light, friendly, and authentic. Avoid generic openers, and instead, ask a thoughtful question or share a common interest. And don't forget to be yourself! Genuine connections happen when you're true to who you are.

Lastly, be patient and respectful. Not every message will lead to a response, and that's okay.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Carlisle, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Carlisle

Fun loving, fit, healthy, witty, intellligent and friendly!


I'm a lovely warm hearted, just want to find Mr Right. I'm looking for a long term relationship. Only genuine guys, not players.


In brief........ witty, warm, successful woman seeks a special person....like you...? I am divorced with two adult, independent, 'children' (28 and 25). I live with Rufus, my dog, in the country, and love all the things that seem to appear in everyone's profile! I walk a lot, listen to music and Radio 4, cook, drink wine, enjoy art(modern) and theatre (National Theatre, Sadlers Wells, The Gobe), eating out in pubs...


I am thoughtful and dependable, I am fairly reserved but am quiet able to stand up for myself. I am determined and over the last couple of years have proved to myself that I can do things alone but do the miss the company of someone to have a special relationship with. I run my own business in Surrey but have a flat in Eastbourne which i visit regularly and...


That photo does me no justice! I am much nicer than that. I Recently lost my wife after caring for her for seven years. I have a nice house and a hairy little car . I am 77 going on 55 and I would like to have a lady in the passenger seat.I enjoy every thing life has to offer-Hols. meals in and out. ..Going out wherever. I am mobile...


MY IDEAL PARTNER WOULD BE HONEST, SINCERE, CARING AND LOVING.


I'm tall, genuine honest. I love dogs going on walks with mine......when she's behaving. I'm not a girly girl have many tattoos. I'm looking for a man with a good sense of humour, who is patient, honest non judgemental. Who can hold his own if quizzed about intentions by my youngest I have 3 grown up children, all with their own children. I love a bit of banter but hate...


I like to think Im a decent, hardworking, considerate guy a bit frayed around the edges maybe, but with plenty of life left in the old dog as long as I get a few strokes and the occasional treat! ;-) I work in the Ambulance service, and also for the Fire service part time. Im a qualified chef, and quite good (even if I do say so myself), so could...