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Make it happen today, connect with someone on Find Happy Singles. Everyday people find someone special with just a few clicks. Join our thriving community of happy hearts, and be the author of your own love story. Every day, sparks fly and connections ignite with just a few simple clicks.

Finding someone that makes you feel tingly is only the first step. Our experts will help turn those tingles into something special. Read up on our dating advice and check out our blog for all kinds of helpful ideas to help you make the best impression. Don't worry if you haven't tried online dating before - it's really, really simple and we're here to help.

Keep it simple

We belive in keeping things simple. That's not to say we scrimp on features. You will find as many, if not more useful features than many of the leading dating brands on Find Happy. We just make it easy to get started and don't force any of them on you. Most members want to start exploring right away without spending hours learning how to use the site or filling in dull questionnaires.

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Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Never tried online dating before?

You're not alone. Lots of people are trying out online dating for the first time. With users already online, people all over the UK are making new connections and building new relationships. It's not hard to see why with such an easy to use site and loads of active friendly people ready to welcome you. Find Happy lets you connect with and meet fantastic people you might never otherwise know about.

Recent members around Swanley

I'm a happy self sufficient 60 yrs old lady from kelso in the Scottish Borders.I've been divorced for a couple of years now and been content and happy in my own company but would love to meet a gentleman for going out and enjoying life with.To meet my soulmate would be a dream come true.


Retired professional, educated lady seeking a good man, who will like me for who I am, who is ( GENUINE) that will make a nice change! attentive with a kind heart.,spoil me occasionally., and treat me with respect.........I am not your usual 60 something , I am young at heart , very down to earth, a real people person, outgoing and sociable, fun loving kind of girl, I am caring,...


Sebastian hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


Hi there About myself I have a good sense of humour,very honest and sincere,I would like to meet the girl that is happy and like to have a happy relationship with, with all the romantic stuff like days out to new places,country and coastal walks, planing holidays and weekend breaks away, I like to keep myself fit by eating good food and cycling when possible, also like a full spectrum...


Here is the beginning of a new adventure. Who knows where it will take me and with whom? I enjoy the thought of meeting new people and trying new interests. I have a lovely supportive family but as they say...your time now...go for it!!! I would like to think I could meet Mr.Right...maybe round the corner..or far off lands..but what a great deal we could offer to each other with...


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I am loyal and faithful and kind love animals Genuine Lady Looking for mr right unfortunately not found him had a few dates but did not work out Please any genuine guys looking for a sincere loving lady please get in touch


I'm honest, caring and loyal. Love having my family around me. I enjoy going out for a meal and for a drink at a pub, and I love going to classes at the gym.