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Find singles looking for love in Upminster with the leading online dating site for serious singles looking for lasting connections.

Being single sucks! We're here to change that for you. We have members from all over the UK, tall, thin, old, young and from all walks of life looking for someone special every day. Join Find Happy today to meet genuine singles in Upminster for fun, laughter and excitement.

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Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Genuine Compliment: "I wanted to reach out and say that your smile in your profile picture is contagious! What's the story behind that great shot?"
  • Food Enthusiasm: "Do you enjoy experimenting with new cuisines, or do you have a favorite dish you could recommend?"
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Feel free to use these engaging opening lines to kickstart conversations on Find Happy. Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

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You're not alone. Lots of people are trying out online dating for the first time. With users already online, people all over the UK are making new connections and building new relationships. It's not hard to see why with such an easy to use site and loads of active friendly people ready to welcome you. Find Happy lets you connect with and meet fantastic people you might never otherwise know about.

Recent members around Upminster

.Just waiting here for you


Well what to say i am someone who enjoys socialising with friends or family ever by going out for meal or having a good girls night out. But also enjoy going to gym or going for a run which helps with work. But also enjoy relaxing by listening to music or watching a good film.


I have many friends and my family are important to me, I love my job and my independence and an active lifestyle. Lots of walking, gardening, working on my allotment, reading, travelling, rugby union and socialising - am interested in meeting someone interesting who would enhance my life and not detract from it.


Bonjour! I am English but speak French/German and Italian
which I use in my job. I am an outgoing warm person
5'7" with fair hair and am told I don't look my age.
I love travel and the Arts, particularly classical music
as my father was a musician. I love good food, good
wine and good company. I would like to meet a
tall intelligent man who is sensitive and...


I am a mum of 3 beautiful girls and I am very easy going and fun loving.


6' tall well built, not overweight,gym early every day without fail. Laughs with and at myself !


BBW!!! As the site says, I've got 'Plenty of Size!'......... A big bum and wobbly thighs. BBW all the way. So if you aren't into big girls, please don't message me. Thanks!!
I am initially looking for friends/pen pals to start with, with the possibility of something more long term with someone special.


The best things in life are not things. Love makes the world go around. Ps and wine. I love life and my passions are my children and family. I lam very loyal and don't take myself too seriously, like to laugh and be happy. First time I have ever joint an online dating site so a bit new to all this so apologise for the boring profile but you will...