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Dating in Oakham

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Recent members around Oakham

I live in Highgate (not Wood Green). am easygoing, undemanding, positive and upbeat, direct sometimes too much so, have eclectic interests especially Bridge, Computers, U3A, dining in and out, discussing things I know something about, theatre, cinema, exercise in moderation and sometimes doing little. I look at housework as a form of exercise but not a pleasure. I try to walk for exercise but it is more a stroll than...


I am retired and living life to the full. Love living in the Lake District. I am outgoing friendly spontaneous and definitely don't feel or act my age. I enjoy swimming at a local Spa and especially love in the outdoor hot tub. I meet up with friends for meals, go to the cinema, walks and just have fun with. Not looking for a one night stand but a meaningful...


I am affectionate, love to travel, quite knowledgable but not about politics or world affairs. Not a sitter, like to be busy in the house or garden or out and about.


My friends tell me I'm funny, intelligent, trustworthy, honest warm and affectionate. I'd say they're right! I have a very dry sense of humour. I can talk about most things providing it isn't sport related or astrophysics. I'm well read and well traveled. I'm not looking for a platonic relationship or marriage but something in between. A loving and caring relationship. I value honesty above all else.


I'm a caring fun loving chap I have 4 daughters 12 grand 3great grand children I play crown green bowls in summer like nice country walks enjoy live 60 70 and country music holidays at home and in sunnier climates. I have many friends mostly couples so odd one out I do things on my own but it would be a lot nicer to share with a like minded lady


Jax hasn't added who she's looking for yet. Why not send her a message and find out if you're the one?


I'm young at heart, have big hair like to dress according to where abouts am going with a modern touch Height 5'4" have brown natural curly hair with blond highlights or now natural highlights . My eyes are green .i am of average build . I like to wear makeup and paint my nails . I'm very chatty and friendly, like to laugh . I am genuine , caring ,...


Easy going likes a laugh, what you see is what you get. looking for easy going relationship. I do not lie and prefer people to be honest with me. The truth never hurts, please ask me anything.