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Durham Singles

Done with the same old dating sites, promises of massive memberships, and complicated apps? Enter Find Happy: we're refreshingly different. With a vast database of members in America, user-friendly website, mobile compatibility (no app downloads needed!), and personalized sites for newbies and mature singles, we're your hassle-free ticket to online love.

Make a date with someone in Durham today

Find Happy is an online community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts combined with an award winning dating platform designed to make finding someone special a simple and enjoyable experience.

If you've never dipped your toes into the world of online dating, you're in for a delightful surprise. People from all corners of America's are making meaningful connections and nurturing new relationships. The appeal is clear – an easy-to-use site, a wealth of active and friendly members, and the opportunity to connect with fantastic individuals.

Search for a date in Durham

Technology is supposed to make life easier. So why are dating sites making it more complicated? We have taken online dating back to basics with an easy to use dating website which works on all devices without any additional downloads or intrusive apps, just log in from any mobile enabled device to search for a date in Durham today.

Our powerful search filters, dedicated niche sites and automated compatibility algorithms mean you spend less time filling in boring questionnaires and more time getting to know people you want to meet. So, instead of tedious questionnaires, you can dive right into meaningful conversations and discover those who truly intrigue you.

Start a conversation

Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Personalized Compliment: "I couldn't help but notice your [specific detail from their profile], and it really caught my eye. It's not every day I come across someone with such great [interest or trait]."
  • Common Interests: "I see we both love [shared interest]. What's your favorite memory related to that?"
  • Playful Tease: "I have to admit, your [quirky or interesting profile detail] intrigued me. Can you top that with an even crazier story?"
  • Ask About Their Day: "Hey there! How's your day going? Discover any exciting adventures today?"
  • Curiosity-Piquing Question: "If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Members near Durham are looking for a date right now

Simply sign up to create your own profile, add a photo, and start viewing your suggested matches, or search members rather than wait for them to come to you. Our Basic membership is free and account activation takes moments. Just enter some basic details in the form provided, and provide a working email to receive your login details. Your personal details are secure and are never displayed to other members of the site. What you share is up to you.

Recent members around Durham

Marisule winked at you (Jan 17 at 12:29 AM)


Emmett hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


Aged: 34 to 52 Height: 6'1"-6'4" (185-194cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Madison, GA Build: Cuddly You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


Iam a widower with to boys family mam.


An artist, but work full time as an art consultant/installer.


i am a nice guy and try to live right..I am a gentle spirit and I love being affectionate..I love to be in the company of funny people and love to laugh!!


Love to Workout, And Stay in Shape. I hope to Find my Very Best Friend!


Well let's see. i'm just a laid back guy who loves to make people laugh and enjoy life, because to me laughter is the best medicine for a bad day and if your reading this then you think the same as me, so with that being said I hope you have a good day,! and hopefully we will meet up some day you, so ttyl