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Meet someone new today with Find Happy. Everyday we help singles become couples, all over America people join Find Happy for friendship and love. Finding your Happy is just a click away.

Discover love and wisdom at Find Happy, where we're more than just a dating site. Our community of writers, bloggers, and relationship experts are here to guide and uplift you on your quest to find that extraordinary person with whom you'll share life's exhilarating moments.

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Opening lines

Sending that initial message on Find Happy might feel a bit nerve-wracking, here are some ideas to get you started.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Humor: Start with a light joke or playful comment, like "Do you believe in love at first swipe?"

Question About Interests: Ask about their hobbies or interests, such as "What's your go-to book or movie recommendation?"

Compliment: Give a genuine compliment like "Your smile in your photo caught my attention. What's your secret?"

Remember, being genuine and showing interest in their profile will increase your chances of getting a positive response. Tailor your opening line to match their interests and personality.

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I am a single mother of a son who is 20 yrs old. I am looking for someone who enjoys life, who would like to travel when time allows. Someone with a good sense of humor and enjoys the simple things in life.


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If all goes well... I will be with the man who makes me laugh and enjoy life... Honest and not a game player. Have a sense of humor and like to laugh and make others laugh.


I am a 5'5" BBW Puerto Rican woman. I am not jealous at all and what you see is what you get. I like the simple things in life and want to find someone to live in peace and harmony with. Am not into drama and was never blessed with any children (my only regret in life) but I do have a lot of adopted nieces and nephews from my...


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Im very out going and socialable.. Love to travel,love to be romanced. I'm loyal to a fault. I have good morals, would like to meet a man with the same...Do not like games and drama.. if u haven't resolved issues with ur last relationship.. plz don't contact me.. I'm nobodies rebound..So please be considerate before contacting me.I like meeting guys of different backgrounds and nationalities.looking to have a good friendship...


Hi, I am a retired registered nurse and also served 20 years in the Air Force. I grew up on a lake so I love all water activities. I am well grounded, honest and sincere. I have a caring nature. I love being active and work out regularly. I love exploring new places. I relocated to San Antonio last March 2015.