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Meet local singles looking for love and friendship with the leading dating site for serious singles looking for a lasting relationship.

We understand that love is as much about proximity and shared experiences as it is about matching interests on paper. That's why we've set out on a mission to make dating in America refreshingly simple, focusing on what truly matters: you, your community, and the exciting journey of getting to know someone right around the corner.

Not just a dating site, Find Happy is a community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts here to help you along the way on your journey to find that special person to share the most exciting moment in life with.

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We don't think gimmicks will help you find a new partner any quicker. We've taken things back to basics - online dating that works on mobile and your computer with no fuss. Our focus is letting you really get to know someone, finding the perfect match for you. There are other sites that will let you skim through thousands of people - but all too often you just end up with someone that's after one thing. We're here for people who want to make a real, lasting relationship.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

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Ana hasn't added who she's looking for yet. Why not send her a message and find out if you're the one?


I am ready to move forward and meet someone special. About me: I was married for 26 years and lost my husband to cancer about a year ago. I moved here about a year and a half ago from the northeast with my 14 year old daughter. I have 2 other kids ages 22 and 20 who still live up north. I love them all dearly and we are very...


My name is Angela. I am 55 years old. I work for a University in the dining hall as a Supervisor


I'm just a tad under 6' tall pretty blonde just turned 69, and don't feel or look old. witty fun genuine honest.. affectionate I'm a movie buff, animal lover, artist, creative thinker, white wine drinker, people person. My favorite-sized group is two! Would love to find a tall guy in the St. Louis area to spend time with and get to know!


I'm Tom. I don't think romance is archaic or dead. I really like it here in East Texas and have good friends and family. I'm almost 58 and have had many occupations. I'm tired of being alone when it comes to ladies. It's been a year and a half since cancer took her away from me. I know it's time to get out there.


Level Headed, down to earth, blunt and honest... to a slight flaw in some cases. Enjoy a good laugh, and enjoy making others laugh. Do not sweat the small stuff and roll with punches life can swing at us sometimes. Positive karma / energy in all I do. Never go to bed angry, never leave things to pollute tomorrow if all possible.


I am a local business woman in Sonoma, and a lifelong learner looking for fun new experiences. (This is the first time I've done anything like this.) My interests include outdoors, hiking, animal welfare, sports (Go Giants!), good food & wine (I know, I'm living in the right place). I enjoy the community and bounty of Sonoma.


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