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At Find Happy, we're all about making online love effortless. With tons of singles all over America and user-friendly features, we've simplified the quest for love. Our mobile-ready site works seamlessly on any device, with no app downloads or shady plugins needed. Plus, we offer personalized sites for an online dating experience talored to your individual needs.

It's not just about meeting someone. Feeling a bit rusty with the whole first date thing? Our experts will take care of you. We have tips and advice for how to turn that first spark into a flame. If you've never tried online dating before, can show the ropes. Want to make the best first impression? Or move from exchanging messages to an actual date? Don't worry we'll help you Find Happy!

A dating site to suit everyone

Our priority is to make your online dating experience an enjoyable, successful one. Not content with simply offering you a choice of singles in America, an award winning dating platform and mobile site and expert relationship advice, we have now introduced additional sites for people with more specific requirements like the over 50's, divorced or single parents.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Never tried online dating before?

You're not alone. Lots of people are trying out online dating for the first time. With users already online, people all over America are making new connections and building new relationships. It's not hard to see why with such an easy to use site and loads of active friendly people ready to welcome you. Find Happy lets you connect with and meet fantastic people you might never otherwise know about.

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Aged: 18 to 120 Height: 6'1"-6'4" (185-194cm) Location: Anywhere Build: Athletic, Average/Medium You match 3 out of 4 of Billie's choices, you're exactly what she's looking for. Why not send her a message?


A lady that is interested in having such a friendly relationship that is monogamous looking for someone that can be a great friend


I am an honest, sincere, fun-loving and warm woman. I am 5'9", and slender. I am a non-smoker, do not drink alcohol (but I don't mind social drinkers), and do not use recreational drugs. I am a retired executive from the pharmaceutical sales industry, Registered Nurse, and a former model. I loved my job, and I traveled around the country on a regular basis. I did not like retirement at...


I actually had an opportunity to ask my friends to describe me in one or two words, and the most common responses were smart and funny. Really, I didn't pay them or anything. I tend to be a little bit quiet, but I'm the most extroverted introvert you'll ever meet. (If Myers-Briggs means anything to you, I'm INFP.) I'm pretty liberal politically and socially and value compassion, kindness and empathy....


Hello to all the unique, special, nuanced ladies out there! You know who you are!! If you don't, get cracking! Always remember: You're good enough, smart enough, and doggonit, people like you!!! Especially me! I am well read but have no degree. Goes to show, you can't always judge a book by its cover! I am an avid writer of short stories, creative writing, and poetry, with aspirations to write...


I am looking for a woman who is honest faithful, with a great sense of humor, someone who I can enjoy spending time with and have fun with. As much as mutual attraction, physical chemistry and passion are very important to me, I would also like to find a woman that is a good communicator and is easy to talk to about everything. I would like nothing better than to...


I'm a good man tryin to meet a great lady. i like going to museum and check out art, I also like cooking . Watching sports , I tried to follow the dodgers when i can . I am fond of older music because it sounds better than the crap on the radio today .


I am Old School where the lady goes first and always be a Gentleman. My friends describe me as friendly, easy to get along with and very laid back.