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In a world where online dating often feels like a labyrinth of personality tests and endless form-filling, there's a refreshing alternative awaiting you - Find Happy. We believe that love should be as familiar as the streets you walk and as close as the cafes you visit. That's why, instead of diving into complex algorithms and in-depth questionnaires, we're all about fostering genuine local connections right here in Benfleet.

Not just a dating site, Find Happy is a community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts here to help you along the way on your journey to find that special person to share the most exciting moment in life with.

Dating Benfleet

Dating can be stressful enough on its own, and at Find Happy, we're determined not to add to that stress. Our approach is beautifully simple: Find - Connect - Meet. Because who knows better than you who you'd like to meet?

Whether you're in Benfleet or open to meeting someone from afar, whether you're seeking tall, dark, and handsome or cute and petite, it's all in your hands. Find Happy members are authentic individuals in pursuit of genuine, lasting relationships, and we provide you with the tools to discover your perfect match. No gimmicks, no endless swiping - just dating tailored to your desires and preferences. It's time to make dating all about you!

Free Dating

When it comes to online dating, you've got options. Free dating sites and premium dating websites and apps, each have their own unique benefits and downsides.

Free dating sites, No subscription fees mean you can dip your toes into online dating without a financial commitment. The downsides are they are more open to scammers and time wasters and often suffer from poor security and customer support as well as annoying adverts.

Premium dating sites on the other hand, come with a subscription fee. In the case of Find Happy, its a modest monthly fee which helps keep our members genuine and pays for a superior level of security and customer care. Premium quality comes at a price. While it's an investment in your love life, it may not suit everyone's budget.

Your choice ultimately hinges on your dating goals and what you value most. If you're taking a casual approach or testing the waters, free sites are a good start. However, if you're on a quest for a long-term relationship, seek enhanced features, top-notch security, and expert guidance, premium dating sites are your tailored path to success.

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Recent members around Benfleet

I'm looking for a sincere man who wont let me down as I am a loyal person and very romantic ! I have a good sense of humour and like the same in a gentleman as I think this is a very necessary ingredient in a relationship. I also appreciate honesty and empathy in a relationship . I am a loyal generous companion and seek the same in a partner....


Hi,I'm 60 years old, been separated 2 years, now want to start living again & hopefully find a loving relationship.I'm a very honest & loyal person, looking for some one with same qualities .


Hi guys, I'm independent, fun loving, love a bit of banter; like dining out, breaks away, nice glass of wine and/or a gt. Also interested in theatre, comedy, rock music, 70's/80's music, live concerts, and love nights spent by a big log fire, especially if i find someone special to snuggle up with ;-) I have a wicked sense of humour, and im loving, caring and sensitive....im not looking a...


I am a retired teacher who has recently got divorced. I am new to the area and looking to meet new people.


I am a quite sophisticated, young-at-heart, fun-loving widower who, having emerged from a period of grieving, is now more than ready to re-establish a normal life. My interests are wide ranging which I pursue with enthusiasm. I'm told I have a warm disposition with a good sense of humour, and am stimulated by good conversation. Above all, I do genuinely enjoy female company, to whom I believe I am sensitive,...


Ahh so about me... well I'm from South Africa, been in the uk for 16 years now. I have a 13 year old son who means the absolute world to me. I work for a small company as an office manager / PA and I do love my job which I guess makes life that much easier right? Had a few knocks in life but finally taking the plunge.... gulp......


Free thinking, adventurous spirit, dog loving, boat loving, outdoors loving kinda gal... Also love live music and entertainment


I am a very easy going down to earth and hardworking independent person who has a young outlook and certainly don't feel or act my age (thankfully). I love the summer with beach holidays and weekends away, the theatre, walking, diy, day trips out, socialising with friends, eating out or in. I enjoy the countryside having a nice walk ending with a good old roast in a country pub with...