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Singles Southminster

Amidst a sea of dating options, Find Happy stands out. With over a decade of online dating expertise, we bring together like-minded Southminster singles like you. Our award-winning dating blog offers invaluable advice on single life, lifestyle, and relationships. Ready to find real connections close to home?

Discover love and wisdom at Find Happy, where we're more than just a dating site. Our community of writers, bloggers, and relationship experts are here to guide and uplift you on your quest to find that extraordinary person with whom you'll share life's exhilarating moments.

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Find Happy wants to make online dating a simple, pleasurable experience. Select from other singles in the UK or get more personal with our exclusive sites for mature singles, Christians or single parents. With dedicated staff on hand we keep Find Happy a vibrant and friendly community of people looking for connections, romance and companionship.

Interesting and quirky dating stories

Love and dating can take some curious and quirky turns.

Unbelievable First Date: In a wild turn of events, a couple who met on a dating app discovered that they had unknowingly shared a flight 20 years earlier as children. They found a picture taken during that flight, with both of them in the background!

The Power of Profile Pictures: Surprisingly, research shows that including a photo with your dog on your dating profile increases your chances of getting a match. Posing with a cat, however, decreases your odds. Cat lovers, take note!

Digital Love: In a bizarre twist of fate, a couple realized they had unknowingly been chatting with each other on an online dating site for over a year, never realizing they were living just a few blocks apart. They finally met when they attended the same local event.

Out-of-This-World Proposal: A man proposed to his girlfriend by arranging for their photos to be sent to the International Space Station, where they were displayed on a screen overlooking Earth. She said yes, making it a proposal that truly reached for the stars.

Penguin Partners: In a zoo in Japan, penguins are given heart-shaped cutouts to exchange with potential mates. If they successfully exchange hearts, it's considered a match made in penguin heaven!

Romantic Robots: Believe it or not, there are dating events where participants bring their own AI-powered robot companions as dates. These futuristic love-seekers are looking for compatibility in both human and machine form.

Wedding Bells on Air: One adventurous couple decided to tie the knot while skydiving. They exchanged vows mid-air and landed as newlyweds, taking the phrase "love is in the air" to a whole new level.

Pet Love: A survey found that nearly one-third of pet owners have admitted to canceling a date to spend time with their furry friends. Pets hold a special place in the hearts of many, and sometimes, they come before romance!

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I'm easy going, very laid back, kind, generous, sensitive, caring, faithful, honest, considerate, respectful, hard working, live each day, day by day, very spontaneous, I don't like liars or cheats, will help anyone, love my children and grandchildren


Hey all im kerry ... im a fun loving lady with a good sense of humour i love the outdoors and animals. Looking for a down to earth guy who can scrub up well for a night out and dont mind getting a bit muddy (have horses lol).


Hi, i'm outgoing fun to be around' tactile (i always liked cuddles and holding hands) i enjoy nights out bowling, going to the cinema, theater, out for meals, as well as nights in with a dvd. I'm after that special someone who's fun, tactile and looking for romance here's hoping it's still out there somewhere. I have managed to upload a picture.(not the right one it's not very good more...


mother of 4 grown -up children, I am cuddly and great at giving hugs so my grandchildren tell me I am far from perfect having had my ups and downs experiencing good and bad times ,looking for my soul-mate ,some-one who will take me as I am .treating me right ,showing me respect, loving me as I am not trying to change me ,I am a good listener and have...


I am quite a confident person, who is kind, loving, affectionate and fun. I enjoy socialising with my friends and family, but equally love cosy nights. I go out walking my black Labrador when I get the chance, go to the gym regularly, a recent discovery, and love it. (I am 5'8")


Im a positive, confident person. I enjoy my friendships and my family relationships . I enjoy cooking. Eating in dining out. I enjoy walking ,cycling a bit of climbing, summer wake boarding. I also like to swim when I can. I love holidays with sunshine. Im fairly well travelled. Im a Sports / Clinical Massage Therapist working from home


I am bubbly, honest, caring, loyal, loving and have a great sense of humour. I like all the usual things in life, good company, laughter, travel, nights in and out, trying new things, do the simple things in life. Just missing that someone special to share it all with. My ideal guy would be honest, fun, loyal, dependable, GSOH and likes what I like and more. I am looking for...


I asked people that know me to sum up my character they have described me as being , young at heart but old in values, loyal, fun loving, caring, relaxed, honest open to all aspects of life. Whilst I am modern thinking I am still old fashioned romantic in the respect, that I believe a lady should be treated as one, If you meet me and you would not like...