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Singles Bakersfield

Find singles looking for love and romance in Bakersfield with Find Happy, the happiness site.

Prepare for a transformative journey because Find Happy is more than just a dating site; it's your very own haven filled with writers, bloggers, and relationship experts who are here to guide and uplift you on your quest to discover that extraordinary person with whom you'll share life's most exhilarating moments.

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Our priority is to make your online dating experience an enjoyable, successful one. Not content with simply offering you a choice of singles in America, an award winning dating platform and mobile site and expert relationship advice, we have now introduced additional sites for people with more specific requirements like the over 50's, divorced or single parents.

Opening lines

Sending that initial message on Find Happy might feel a bit nerve-wracking, here are some ideas to get you started.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Humor: Start with a light joke or playful comment, like "Do you believe in love at first swipe?"

Question About Interests: Ask about their hobbies or interests, such as "What's your go-to book or movie recommendation?"

Compliment: Give a genuine compliment like "Your smile in your photo caught my attention. What's your secret?"

Remember, being genuine and showing interest in their profile will increase your chances of getting a positive response. Tailor your opening line to match their interests and personality.

It's simple and quick to get started. Begin by creating your free account, let people know a few details about yourself and upload a photo. Or you could drive straight in a start searching for someone from Bakersfield.

Your location is only used to provide the most relevant matches, your exact location is never displayed. Your personal details are secure and never revealed or passed on to any third parties.

Recent members around Bakersfield

News junkie, and paranormal interested.


God fearing you won't be disappointed! !! I'm fun honest caring loving individual that treat people the way I want to be treated.


As a nice guy, caring and goes out of the way to assist or help someone. Also, I am not from Ocoee, Fl. I am from The Villages, Fl.


I am an intelligent, loyal, , and Spiritual woman. Dramma free, I enjoy life at all times. Family is very important to me. Being together with someone you care about means everything. Life is short so take full advantage of it. I enjoy snuggling, holding hands displays of affection towards each other. Gatherings between friends and family just adds to the for our union. Loyalty and respect means everything in...


Im a simple woman and separated, i have 5 kids in there all married, im not perfect at everthing but im trying to, i dont put make up on face, it defends on ocassion , Im loving and caring , looking for a man that who will give me love and care. First knowing each other before commit any relation. Im honest and sincere about relation, no lies be honest...


I have been single for 15 years now. My youngest is an upperclassman in college and I am at a place where I am beginning to be able to have more time for myself. I love people and am fortunate to work in an atmosphere where I am interacting all day. Weekends are quiet, that is when I pursue a great passion; knitting. But for sure there is room in...


I don't like drama at all..well that being said I love to walk on the beach ridding horses any water activities..movies..love going to church.. I have a dog name stormy and that name fits her so you must like dogs


I am animal lover, cat person although I enjoy dogs. Enjoy the country and sea shore. eclectic in taste and adventures. Arts, museums, beach, walks, road trips, and much more. Looking for some one for a long term relation ship.