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El Cajon singles

Ever feel like you're searching high and low for love, only to come up empty-handed in the quest for that perfect someone? Well, don't let those moments of doubt dim your hope because we're here to transform your journey to happiness.

We've got a vibrant tapestry of individuals spread across America, representing diverse ages, backgrounds, races, and beliefs, all on a quest for something truly enduring. Your ideal partner could be right here, waiting to craft a lasting love story with you.

Discovering Your Perfect Connection: Where Our Commitment Goes Beyond Just Dating

At Find Happy, our primary goal is helping you unearth that extraordinary connection. But our dedication doesn't end there. We understand that an exceptional dating site is about more than just displaying photos of singles and leaving you to fend for yourself.

Our commitment goes deeper. We've assembled a team of online support staff and relationship experts who are readily accessible through our website and social media channels. They're here to provide you with expert advice and unwavering support, ensuring that your journey to love is not only enjoyable but also guided by the wisdom of those who truly understand the intricacies of modern romance.

Meet and date in El Cajon

Everyday we welcome new members from all over America giving you a great chance of finding the right match for you.

We also offer dedicated sites for over 50's, single parents, divorced men and women and more. If you know the type of person you are looking for they might be perfect for you. Registration is completely free so why not sign up for our main site and a couple of our smaller niche sites and see where you feel most comfortable?

Interesting and quirky dating statistics

Love and relationships can take some curious and quirky turns, and these statistics highlight the unique aspects of the dating world that often go unnoticed.

Penguin Matchmaking: The Weymouth SEA LIFE Adventure Park in the UK once set up a dating profile for a penguin named Spruce on the dating site Plenty of Fish to help him find a mate. It turns out even penguins need a little online help in the dating game!

The Marathon Dater: A man named Willard Foxton documented his experience of going on 28 Tinder dates in 28 days as part of a social experiment. His adventures were both humorous and eye-opening.

Bot Love: Some dating profiles turn out to be chatbots or automated programs. These "fake" dates can be amusing when you realize you've been chatting with a computer program.

Dating App Bloopers: There are entire websites and social media accounts dedicated to sharing hilarious and cringe-worthy dating app conversations, showcasing the awkward and funny side of online dating.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in El Cajon, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around El Cajon

I live a quite lifestyle , I don't get out much anymore besides work and home. Somewhat of a homebody. I'm easy going I love to laugh and have fun.. I work in Customer Relations , I enjoy talking with people , problem solving and information research.In my spare time I enjoy listening to 60's and 70's music, dancing ,traveling taking short trips to California , Las Vegas and Sedona...


Aged: 62 to 120 Location: Within 25 miles of Easley, SC


I'm a very tall, slim, eclectic, eccentric, high energy, creative powerhouse of a woman that was recently thinking, "how cool would it be if there was a singles sight for people who loved dogs, like I do?" So I started researching and found this sight and was intrigued. I am a self-employed canine behaviorist and trainer. I focus my energy on helping dogs overcome problem behaviors by helping their owners...


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I never really know what to say when asked about myself but here goes: I am Latina, born and raised in a mostly Christian home, I come from a very large family. My family and friends mean the world to me. I'm shy and quiet at first, my whole family has a sarcastic kind of sense of humor so hopefully whoever I match up with can appreciate that. I'm pretty...


I am a strong person. I found a soul mate and raised a wonderful family with her until she was taken by cancer. I care for two teenage children. I have a positive mental attitude and strong faith in God. I like music, Cosst to Coast and sports. I'm handy and make people laugh. I seek a female companion in the Cleveland area for dating.


A public place to have coffee or beer and bite to eat.


Aged: 36 to 49 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm), 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Saint Paul, MN Build: Athletic, Average/Medium You have matched 2 of her 4 choices.