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Online Dating Success: Around 20% of current committed relationships began online, and 17% of couples who married in the last year met through a dating site.

Longest Marriage: The longest recorded marriage lasted 91 years and 12 days. The couple, who lived in the UK, got married in 1925 and remained together until 2016.

Speed Dating Origin: Speed dating was invented by a Rabbi in 1998 to help Jewish singles meet potential partners more efficiently.

Proposal Season: Christmas Eve is the most popular day of the year to propose, followed closely by Valentine's Day and Christmas Day.

Relationship Length: The average length of a romantic relationship before marriage in the United States is around three years.

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Love Letters: Before the digital age, love letters were the primary means of expressing affection. Now, email and text messages have largely replaced them.

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Recent members around El Cajon

Where do I begin? I'm not one to blow my own horn, but in this case it may help me to attract a special lady. So as I give this some thought as to how I see myself, think of myself, I'll list words and thoughts that come to me. I do like to be and hope you are being thought of as well as: down to earth, easy going,...


6ft 2. 200lbs. Enjoy meeting new folks great conversationalist


Aged: 50 to 60 Location: Within 50 miles of Media, PA Build: Cuddly


Am more of the Pillsbury Boy Type and short. With bald brown hair and brown eyes.


I love groovy people I don't like nobody to get into my business and things walking around with their nose in the air them kind of people like just can't Use I am upbeat and optimistic about life spent 30 years as a professional chef in New York City and also drove limousine for NBC Studios Rockefeller Center always in a good mood don't allow myself to get upset about...


I'm a pretty laid back kind of guy, but there are a few things that rile me a bit from time to time, the main ones being when someone is illogical about something and refuses to listen to facts, and another one is dishonesty/hypocrisy. In the main, I always do my best to love and respect others despite their faults and mistakes, especially when they are doing something to improve...


Shawn hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


I am 57 old handicapped guy looking for love i workout 3 times a week i am very passion and loyal and caring loving guy.i i don't bite someone take chance on me :'( :'( i hope...... .