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Opening lines

Sending that initial message on Find Happy might feel a bit nerve-wracking, here are some ideas to get you started.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

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Remember, being genuine and showing interest in their profile will increase your chances of getting a positive response. Tailor your opening line to match their interests and personality.

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Martel hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


Hello - Looking for a partner to enjoy life with. Road trips local and far, movies, laughter. I have a career that is demanding, I need to get out and have fun with someone special. How about a game of tennis? Kareoke night? Live music? Currently working on me and healthy eating. Looking for a partner to hike the redwoods, get out be active, how about a 5k? My first...


Aged: 35 to 55 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm), 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Within 50 miles of Dover, NH Build: Voluptuous, A Little Curvy, Cuddly, Slightly Overweight, Large/Full You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


I'm divorced, 3 kids, outgoing, fun, loyal, honest, trusting, loving, experimental. Looking for the same. Not looking for liars, cheats, hookups, or guys who just want to lead on. If you understand all this still think you want to hang out. Give me a shout. Kisses hugs.


Retired knight seeks well adjusted to lightly distressed maiden in need of rescue of small dragon...shallow moat preferably with lowered draw bridge and low tower if scaling is necessary. My intentions are chivalrous and honorable but include colluding...galavanting and carousing in and around the castle gardens.


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Saving all details for a great conversation on my first date!


I am a very loving and private person. I'm honest and loyal and would love to meet someone that is serious about a relationship.