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Singles Costa Mesa

Amidst a sea of dating options, Find Happy stands out. With over a decade of online dating expertise, we bring together like-minded Costa Mesa singles like you. Our award-winning dating blog offers invaluable advice on single life, lifestyle, and relationships. Ready to find real connections close to home?

Finding someone that makes you feel tingly is only the first step. Our experts will help turn those tingles into something special. Read up on our dating advice and check out our blog for all kinds of helpful ideas to help you make the best impression. Don't worry if you haven't tried online dating before - it's really, really simple and we're here to help.

You're in safe hands with Find Happy

We want to make your online dating experience the best possible. Everyday we're welcoming new members and helping them get started . With loads of members and one of the best dating sites around (even if we do say so ourselves).

We also offer dedicated sites for over 50's, single parents and divorced singles. If you know the type of person you are looking for they might be perfect for you.

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Remember it's completely free to sign up and see what's what. So if you're curious come and take a look around.

Online dating facts

Online Dating's Beginnings: Online dating as we know it today started in 1995 with the launch of Match.com. Since then, the industry has grown exponentially.

Profile Picture Matters: Profiles with clear and attractive photos are more likely to receive messages. In fact, profiles with photos receive about 10 times more attention than those without.

Username Impact: Choosing a unique and positive username can make a big difference. People with usernames that start with letters higher in the alphabet tend to get more messages.

Peak Activity: Online dating platforms typically see a surge in activity on Sundays and Mondays, with users looking for potential matches for the week ahead.

Age Preferences: Studies show that men tend to prefer dating younger women, while women often prefer dating men their age or slightly older.

Long-Distance Love: Around 33% of long-distance relationships start online. Online dating makes it easier for people to connect across geographical distances.

First Messages: Women are more likely to respond to messages that mention common interests, while men tend to receive more responses when they use direct compliments.

These facts and statistics highlight the ever-evolving world of online dating, with its unique trends, challenges, and opportunities for finding love and companionship.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Costa Mesa, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Costa Mesa

Hi Everyone. I'm an old (Christian) Biker who loves the Lord. I'm a recovered alcoholic and Drug abuser. I have been clean now for 32yrs. In the past I've been a volunteer at homeless shelters and Faith Based addiction centers. Why? Because I love to tell my testimony and give Hope to the hopeless. I've been going to school to become a ordain minister. Remember that Religion is Man looking...


I am a African American woman 65years young, I Love to sing God gave me a beautiful voice to sing and I use it for the glory of God. more about me I have six daughter's and they are all out on there own! With there own family. I am a very honest person that don't have nothing to hide, I'm here on this site hopefully to meet that special...


Suzanne introduced herself: "Leap of Faith" (Jan 18 at 8:05 PM)


I'm the most positive, upbeat man you'll ever meet. In my world, every rainbow has a pot of gold at the end. I love life and live it to the fullest. I'm no sideline jockey. I get into the game of life and play hard and play to win. I love to laugh and make others laugh too! I believe all women are a special gift from God to bring...


A person that keeps going that will not give up .


I'm a Mother and a Grandmother. I spend several days a week watching my Grandson who is a little over a year old. I like taking walks. I love animals. I have a dog and a cat. I'm fresh out of a long relationship, so I'm moving slowly into the dating stage. Dating is something I haven't done in 15 years so forgive me if I'm a little slow.


FYI: 1. If you don'T have a pictureNO RESPONCE! This is a "Dating Site" not a "Blind Date" site. 2. Don't ask me for more photos or videos. 3. Don't try to lure me off this site. I have always believed there is something I am to learn in my evolution. One aspect is I am to share this journey with my Spiritual partner!! I want to find someone that...


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