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Singles Montecito

Amidst a sea of dating options, Find Happy stands out. With over a decade of online dating expertise, we bring together like-minded Montecito singles like you. Our award-winning dating blog offers invaluable advice on single life, lifestyle, and relationships. Ready to find real connections close to home?

Not just a dating site, Find Happy is a community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts here to help you along the way on your journey to find that special person to share the most exciting moment in life with.

One size doesn't always fit all

Not content with simply offering you a choice of singles in America, an award winning, mobile enhanced dating application and expert support and advice, we have now introduced additional sites for people with more specific requirements like the over 50's, divorced or single parents.

  • Safe and secure and anonymous
  • See which members are online when you are
  • Helpful, friendly customer support staff 24-7
  • Only genuine, verified member profiles
  • Free to join and create your own photo profile

Opening lines

Sending that initial message on Find Happy might feel a bit nerve-wracking, here are some ideas to get you started.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Humor: Start with a light joke or playful comment, like "Do you believe in love at first swipe?"

Question About Interests: Ask about their hobbies or interests, such as "What's your go-to book or movie recommendation?"

Compliment: Give a genuine compliment like "Your smile in your photo caught my attention. What's your secret?"

Remember, being genuine and showing interest in their profile will increase your chances of getting a positive response. Tailor your opening line to match their interests and personality.

Sign up for your free account using the quick and simple 5 step form above to get started. Your personal details will remain secure and we will never divulge them to other members of the site.

Take a look at some of the reasons that new people register with us every week.

Recent members around Montecito

Gonzalo hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


Well people would say i am a good and caring man , i have the fear of God , i go to church and believe in the Christ , i am hopping to find my life partner on here , someone that i could be friends with and see where it's takes us from there , well this are few things about me , feel free to ask me what...


HAPPY GO LUCKY BIG OLE TEDDYBEAR, NEEDS ALOT OF LOVIN,HUGGIN, KISSIN,CUDDLON, HAND HOLDIN, LONG WALKS, PUBLIC AFFECTION;;;I'M AN AMPUTEE TO MY RIGHT LEG, DIABETIC, OM KIDNEY DIALYSIS 3 X PER WEEK;;; BATHED EVERYDAY,HOYERED IN ELECTRIC WHEELCHAIR


Aged: 52 to 62 Height: 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Anywhere You have matched 1 of her 3 choices.


Aged: 30 to 45 Height: 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Jewett City, CT Build: Athletic, Muscular, A Little Curvy, Cuddly, Slightly Overweight, Large/Full You have matched 2 of her 4 choices.


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Aged: 36 to 45 Height: 5'1"-5'4" (154-164cm), 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm), 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Within 50 miles of Vacaville, CA Build: Petite, A Little Curvy You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.